Quirkyalone

An interesting concept and one which it is hard not to respond with “that’s me” to.

We are the puzzle pieces who seldom fit with other puzzle pieces. … Yet make no mistake: We are no less concerned with coupling than your average serial monogamist. Secretly, we are romantics, romantics of the highest order. We want a miracle. Out of millions we have to find the one who will understand. … For the quirkyalone, there is no patience for dating just for the sake of not being alone. On a fine but by no means transcendent date we dream of going home to watch television. We would prefer to be alone with our own thoughts than with a less than perfect fit. We are almost constitutionally incapable of casual relationships.

Despite the current blissful state of togetherness, I am quite clearly a quirkyalone, and so, I suspect, is Martin. Which would explain a few things.

But when the quirkyalone collides with another, ooh la la. The earth quakes.

Quirkytogether, in fact.

(Via Emme)

Heaps

Two Monday Missions for the price of one:

MM 3.51

1. Last night, I had a nightmare that my car had been stolen. (…) Have you ever had a dream so real, that inside the dream you had to fight to wake yourself up? Do you remember the dream?
Not fight, no. I have had dreams where I’ve realised I was dreaming and decided I might as well wake up, but not ones that have been stressful.

2. I’ve mentioned this before, but I really don’t believe in the concept of a “soul-mate.” Maybe this is because I’ve never really felt like I have met mine. (…) How would you define the concept of a “soul-mate” is? Do you believe in such things? Have you met your soul-mate?
Have I met my soul-mate? To the degree that I think it’s an accurate description, yes, I guess I have. At least I’ve met someone I’m planning to spend the rest of my life with and he seems to think it’s a good idea, too.

3. What does it take to make men happy anyway?
How should I know? I hardly even know what it takes to make me happy.

4. What is your favorite piece of electric hardware, and why?
Right now it’s a fierce fight between my Jukebox Zen (I love being able to carry all my favourite music with me everywhere) and my new breadmaker (mmm, waking up to freshly baked bread…). On the other hand I rather like my computer (yay! e-mail!) and the fridge (yay! cold drinks!) and the cooker (yay! pizza!) too, and wouldn’t be prepared to give any of them up without a fight.

5. Yesterday in our adult Sunday School class, a lady was telling us about a woman with car trouble she had stopped to help. (…) It left me wondering how many people I had just driven by that I could have helped. But at the same time, I felt like she was taking too big of a risk stopping to help a stranger when it was just her and her children. Have you ever stopped to help a stranded motorist? Has anyone ever stopped to help you when you were stranded? Isn’t there some element of risk involved when helping someone with car trouble, or is it better to just “do unto others as you’d have them do unto you?”
There’s a risk, obviously, but then there’s a risk to most things in life and if you are to walk around constantly worrying about them and letting them limit your actions your life is going to be pretty boring.

6. Just for fun, what is the one present you’d like for Christmas, but you know there is no way you will get?
Canon EOS 300D (or any of the other digital Canon SLRs, though in a way I’d prefer the “cheap” one as I might feel slightly too worried about carrying my camera everywhere if it was worth several thousands).

7. What are you thankful for this Christmas?
Martin

MM 3.52

1. So, what did you get for Christmas?
Just what I wanted. Except for the aforementioned Canon EOS 300D.

2. Are you returning any gifts you were given for Christmas?
Nope.

3. For me, the best part of Christmas being over is that there will be no more Fran Drescher “Old Navy” commercials. Ugh, bring back Morgan Fairchild! What is the best part of Christmas being over?
No more stupid newspaper stories about what to get people for Christmas.

4. Used to be, we would always get together with friends and have Margaritas on New Year’s Eve (though time has passed and friends drift apart, so not anymore, sadly). My Grandma always makes sure to eat Black Eyed Peas on N.Y.E. I know of another couple who “do it” on NYE, and time it to reach their “peak” right at 12:00 AM! Do you have any traditions each year for New Year’s Eve?
Champers at midnight and watching the fireworks. That’s about it for traditions.

5. If you could go back into 2003 and change just one thing, or get a “do over,” what would you do?
Hm. Not sure I’d change anything, actually, 2003 has been a pretty good year so far. I might just possibly have done things slightly differently between 11 and 17 July, but as things have worked out pretty well, I think it might be better just to leave them as they are – changing anything would just bring the risk of messing things up, I should think.

6. Is there anything you want to accomplish in 2004 that seems within reach?
Get this f%?#ing project live.

7. Is your online personality very different from what it would be like if I were meeting you in “real life?”
I don’t think so. If it is, it’s not consciously done on my part. There will inevitably be differences between your expectations derived from the way I write and the actual me, I suppose, since what I write obviously only contains the information I consider “important” enough to consign to bits, but they’re unlikely to be major ones.

All Christmassy

I’m still in holiday mood despite being back at work and trying to get a rather important installation to work. It’s all going pear-shaped, but I’m having a bit of a hard time finding the wherewithall to care.

Part of the reason for this is that I’m too happy with the world in general. I’ve quite clearly got The Best Boyfriend™. Obviously, he probably wouldn’t be my boyfriend unless I thought so, but still. I’m having a bit of a hard time believing my luck. I mean, everyone knows Christmas presents are a bit of a tricky subject when you’re in love because if your significant other gets it all wrong it’s hard not to feel that he/she really doesn’t know you at all and that it must mean he/she doesn’t care as much as you thought. I imagine. I wouldn’t know, really, seeing as my significant other got it as “all right” as it’s possible to get it. Not only did he manage to avoid following any of the completely inane advice touted by all the papers in the weeks leading up to Christmas, but he really did manage to get it right on all counts. I got

– one thing actually on my wishlist (Non-stop, not just “a bag”, though)
– one thing I know I’ve mentioned I wanted to buy but never got round to buying myself, partly because I wasn’t aware that it was available yet
– one thing I didn’t even know existed but was thrilled to get
– one thing I’d actually considered buying for him (I didn’t, because I ended up getting something completely different instead)

and that wasn’t even all of it. And every single thing was something you’d actually have to know me quite well to know that I wanted (well, ok, except the Non-stop, you’d only have to read my blog to know I wanted that). To top it all off, it was all wrapped in such a way that it was impossible to guess the contents of any one package – which is another big plus.

Oh, and he made me laugh, too. How much better can it get?

Well, of course, he could have been in the room rather than 400 miles or so away, but that wasn’t to be helped. (It will be helped next year though. There is simply no way I am conceding my right to spend Christmas Eve with the love of my life next year.)

Apart from missing Martin like crazy, Christmas wasn’t bad at all. To continue the evaluation of the presents, my parents got me the breadmaker I wanted, so now there will be loads of freshly baked bread to be had – once I’ve unpacked, that is. I got a couple of books I’m looking forward to reading, a cd from my brother which, characteristically, looks interesting (he sees it as his mission to “educate” me in that area), a couple of odds and ends that will look nice around the flat – oh, and my grandparents gave me cash, which is boring but useful.

We (my parents, my brother and I) drove up to Trondheim on Christmas Day and Martin’s mother invited us all to dinner, which was very nice (and very good). Since then I’ve spent a blissful couple of days – in Martin’s company, or they wouldn’t have been very blissful, obviously – doing very little at all, which probably explains why my brain refuses to get back to “work mode” today.

Actually, one thing I have done is scan some slides, so once I get around to it you will be able to find pictures from the last trip to Scotland in the gallery. I’ll let you know.

Summarily

The last Friday Five of the year:

1. What was your biggest accomplishment this year?
Not really sure I accomplished anything particularly “big” this year.

2. What was your biggest disappointment?
That the main project at work still hasn’t gone live. I’m getting heartily sick of it.

3. What do you hope the new year brings?
The project going live. And some other stuff.

4. Will you be making any New Year’s resolutions? If yes, what will they be?
I don’t tend to make resolutions at New Year particularly, it’s more a case of continuous resolutions throughout the year as I realise the necessity.

5. What are your plans for New Year’s Eve?
Don’t have any yet, apart from wanting to be the same place as Martin and intending to toast 2004 in with champagne.

2003

Månedens tema på nettdagbok.no er 2003, og det er jo ganske passende. Jeg kunne jo selvsagt foreslå at man leser seg gjennom arkivet på Little Voices, men det er ikke særlig brukervenlig av meg. I stedet stjeler jeg Mariannes utmerkede liste som utgangspunkt for oppsummering av året…

Nytt bekjentskap:
Theresa.

Min beste venninne:
Linda

Min beste kompis:
Arve

Hvor jeg tilbrakte mest tid:
Hjemme. Kjedelig svar, hva? Ellers… Hm, later til å ha vært på The Dubliner ganske mye.

Hvem jeg hang mest sammen med:
Arve

Hvem som ga meg flest latterkramper:
Enten Arve eller Linda, jeg har ikke akkurat talt.

Hva jeg brukte mest penger på:
Uffda. Whisky (særlig om du teller reisene til Skottland). Bøker (business as usual). Dyreste enkeltobjekt var Creative Jukebox Zen’en.

Hva jeg drev med?:
Uhm. Whisky? Ok, noe annet også. Lest mye. Stablet nmwl.no på beina. Jobbet. Myset. Tok 9th grade i karate og droppet karate igjen (har ikke tid). Begynte med skotsk folkedans. Gikk rundt og var forelska (med varierende grad av bevissthet).

Antall forelskelser:
En.

Antall sexpartnere:
En.

Hvem som satt dypest spor:
Arve, selvsagt.

Og hva fikk meg til å falle for ham?:
Som du spør.

Hvor mange hjerter jeg knuste:
Tror ikke jeg drev så mye med det i 2003. Håper ikke det. Vet ikke om noen, i hvert fall.

Hvor mange ganger mitt hjerte ble knust:
Ingen (heldigvis).

Beste plate:
To Rustne Herrer – Tolv rustne strenger
Hvilke andre plater kom ut i 2003? Kommer bare på plater som kom tidligere, tror jeg.

Sang som holdt seg lengst på hjernen:
Vanskelig. Tror den jeg har hatt oftest på hjernen i år er Alanis Morissettes 21 Things I want in a Lover

Beste film:
Forhåpentligvis Atter en Konge, men hittil… Himmelfall, tror jeg, gitt.

Beste bok:
J.K. Rowling – Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix
Jasper Fforde – The Eyre Affair/Lost in a Good Book/The Well of Lost Plots
Patrck O’Brian – The complete Aubrey/Maturin series

Beste innkjøp:
Creative Jukebox Zen. Love it, love it, love it.

Beste minne(r):
17. juli (og de fleste av dagene etter det).
Cliffs of Moher.
“Åka ringar” på en sjø utenfor Arvika.
Guinness på Guinness.
Gröna Lund.
Cider og gode venner på Wetherspoon’s i Worthing.
Snowboarding – må prøves igjen.
“Omvisning” med katt som eneste guide på Bladnoch.
Grand Prix ganger to.
Dans på St. Andrew’s Ball.
“Eying up the guys” på Akkurat i Stockholm.
Hest og vogn gjennom Dublins gater.
17. mai i særdeles godt selskap.
Bursdagsfeiring på The Dubliner.
Øl på The Porterhouse.
Lillebjørn Nilsen på Rockefeller, To Rustne Herrer i konserthuset.

I det hele tatt har det vært et bra år…

Villeste minne:
Villeste? Vet ikke om jeg har gjort noen spesiellt ville ting i år.
Forresten var det ganske villt, på en litt stillferdig måte, å oppdage at jeg kunne si “Jeg elsker deg” og mene det for første gangen i mitt liv.

Dårligste minne:
Døgnet etter at jeg så Bowling for Columbine var ikke artig.

Verste dag / Beste dag:
Verste dag – hm – 13. september var ikke bra, 14. var hakket verre.
Beste dag: 17. juli. Og så var 18. juli bedre, og 19. var enda bedre og 20…

Planer for det nye året:
Pusse opp kjøkken (har vært planen de to siste årene, så kanskje ikke veldig sannsynlig).
Tur til Skottland i april/mai og september.
Få orden på økonomien (trengs).
Tilbringe masse tid sammen med Arve.
Besøke Linda så ofte som mulig.
Besøke Janne oftere enn i fjor.
Bruke hytta.
Bruke rollerblades’ene mer enn en gang…
Gjøre noe med ikke-blog delene av denne nettsiden.
Bruke kameraet mer og ta bedre bilder.

Almost

In a few minutes Christmas Lunch will be declared open and that will be the end (hopefully) of work for me until the 29th. Time off is going to be goooooooood.

The christmas lunch might be fun, of course. In the time-honoured tradition of such things, there will be free booze. Free booze starting at 2 pm is a bit risky. Nevermind, there’s nothing I need to do tonight except meet up with Martin – and possibly my brother – and they have both seen me drunk before (and probably will again). Will try to remember to drink the odd glass of water or similar non-alchoholic substance.

Voice in my head: Roy Wood(?) – I Wish it could be Christmas Every Day (which is rubbish, I wish no such thing, once a year is pretty much perfect)

Statistikk

Rapperen Eminem er den personen nordmenn har søkt mest etter på Internett i 2003. Det viser MSNs statistikk for årets søk.

Nettavisen har problemer med å tolke statistikk, ser jeg. Eminem er den personen flest nordmenn av de som bruker MSNs søk – snarere enn f.eks. google som ethvert fornuftig menneske – har søkt mest etter. Ikke helt det samme.

Not quite 5×5

Friday Five (with some missing answers):

1. List your five favorite beverages.
Coffee (plain black), tea (PG Tips w/milk), sparkling water, English Cider and uhm, single malt scotch whisky. Whisky is a beverage, right?

2. List your five favorite websites.
nmwl.no (shameless self-promotion)
me(ish)
nettavisen
CentralOps.net tools
Webmonkey

3. List your five favorite snack foods.
Popcorn
Tortilla chips
Cheese & crackers
Chocolate

4. List your five favorite board and/or card games.
Trivial Pursuit
Passport
“Vri åtter”
Mah-jong
Monopoly

5. List your five favorite computer and/or game system games.
Tetris
Space Invaders
Mah-jong
Monopoly